Hi !
The only time we suffer is when we believe a thought that argues with "what is". When the mind is perfectly clear, "what is" is what we accept in this moment.
In the words of Byron Katie, "If you want your reality to be different than 'what is' then you might as well try to teach your cat to bark. You can try and try and in the end the cat will look up at you and say 'Meow'. Wanting your reality to be different than what it is in this moment, is just as hopeless. You can spend the rest of your life trying to teach your cat to bark."
And yet if you pay attention, you'll notice that you think thoughts like this all the time. Whenever the word 'should' shows up, that's what is going on. As in "I should be thinner, my friend should be less sensitive, my spouse should be more attentive." - You get the idea...
These thoughts are ways of wanting reality to be different than it is. Here is my point - all the stress you feel in your life at this moment is caused by arguing with "what is".
People say to me, "But if I simply accept reality then I will become passive and nothing will change. I answer them with this question. Which of these statements makes more sense? "I wish I hadn't lost all that money." or "What can I do now to create more income?"
Accepting "what is" doesn't mean you settle for the way things are, it just means you give up all the resistance and inner struggle by wishing it were different.
When undesirable things happen, it can be helpful not to let go and NOT mentally argue with them. We know this, and the only reason we continue doing it is because it is a HABITUAL PATTERN. As you know, you can change your habitual patterns when you change your energetic blueprint.
Today will bring you a new awareness, a lesson or a manifestation that you are making progress - IF YOU LOOK FOR IT! No matter how large or small, please record it in your Evidence Journal. It will only take a few moments and will AUTOMATICALLY put you in the Flow.
Truly Caring for Your Success!
Dr. Robert Anthony
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